Valentines Day SUCKS!

We said it, you might believe it too. Valentines day is officially the most ridiculous holiday on the calendar and here's why!

If you're in a relationship with someone, whether it's been 1 year or 60 years (and everything in between) you shouldn't need a specific day on the calendar to tell your partner how much you love them, how important they are to you and how much they mean to you.

You shouldn't need to give them gifts or spend money on things they might not even need or want.

You shouldn't feel the stress of trying to come up with a gift idea, drive around town to find the 'perfect' gift and make sure it's nicely packaged and waiting for them on February 14th.

You SHOULD want to tell them you love them daily.

You SHOULD want to share your life with them in a way you don't with anyone else.

You SHOULD want to have experiences with them that are memorable and meaningful.

You SHOULD want to surprise them with random gifts throughout the year.

You SHOULD want to spend time with them on their good days and bad days.

The strength and love in a relationship isn't defined by 1 day of the year, it's defined by what you do to grow and contribute to your relationship on 365 days of the year!

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